Places I Love: American Brewing Co.

It might be apparent from my last few posts that I have fallen in love with Edmonds, and have been spending a lot more time there. And one of the very best places to visit in Edmonds (in my opinion, anyway) is American Brewing Co. The brewery started up in 2011 and has become so popular and successful, they are currently expanding!
ABC is in a cool warehouse location near the waterfront, and on nice days the back doors are rolled up so that visitors have the option to sit in the sunshine and enjoy a beer. Although the front door faces the railroad tracks, ABC is easy to find: just follow the signs (and the yellow beer mugs!) to the front door. The atmosphere is warm, friendly, and relaxed. Everyone who works there is super friendly and knowledgeable, and the beer is fantastic. I confess, I was not much of a beer fan before discovering ABC, but now I love it! If you’re not sure what you might like, you can try lots of different samples to get an idea of what you might enjoy. My favorite is the American Blonde.
While going to the brewery is always a good time, there are a couple of regular events that I recommend checking out. ABC normally doesn’t serve food, but if you’re lucky enough to be there on a Tuesday night, you can get one of Big Mike’s famous hot dogs to enjoy along with your beer. You’d be hard-pressed to find a better hot dog in Edmonds (or Puget Sound!), and Mike is as fantastic as his cooking. On Wednesdays, Jeremy hosts Trivia Night, and it’s getting a lot of momentum! I definitely recommend checking it out and seeing how much you really know (or, in my case, how much you really don’t).

ABC

Football, beer, and friends at ABC


I’ve had a lot of great times at ABC, including watching the Seahawks win the Superbowl! It’s a place that I’ve invited friends to, and everyone who has checked it out agrees that it’s a fun place with fantastic beer.
 

Places I Love: Rory's of Edmonds

Last fall, I was very lucky to be introduced to Rory’s of Edmonds, which is now one of my very favorite places. Rory’s offers a full service bar, a menu full of amazing food, and a view of the Sound (it’s right across the street from the ferry terminal). When the weather’s nice, they have a big deck so that you can sit outside and enjoy the fresh air while you have a drink or a meal. For chillier days (I’ve experienced much more of these since discovering Rory’s!), they have a table that surrounds an indoor fireplace. They’ve also got a lot of big TVs, and I spent many a weekend watching the Seahawks games while enjoying drinks and great food. Everyone who works there is super friendly and attentive.

View from Rorys

The View from Rory’s last Saturday


I’ve been to Rory’s enough to have had quite a few different things on their menu, and everything I’ve eaten has been fantastic. I’m a huge fan of their fresh chips and salsa and the Pound of Love, which is a basket of perfectly-seasoned french fries. Meal-wise, my current menu favorite is the Grilled Turkey and Swiss sandwich. While that may sound like a rather tame choice, it’s probably the best sandwich I’ve ever gotten anywhere in the Northwest. What makes it so special is that instead of your usual mayo or mustard, this sandwich has cranberry sauce on it, making it like a leftover Thanksgiving dinner sandwich. Soooo good!
Rory’s is the first place that I can honestly say I’ve become a “regular” at. Right now I am very much looking forward to summer, and I’m excited to enjoy warm weather from their deck!
 
 

Sunset in Edmonds

Last week was a particularly difficult one for me, and I felt incredibly drained throughout it. Although I think that as a whole I am a happy person who bounces back from a bad day fairly quickly, there were a few days last week that were harsher than even the routine bad day, and I felt that my (admittedly rather sensitive) spirit was taking a beating.
On Tuesday, I had an errand to run after work that required me to drive about thirty miles during rush hour in bumper-to-bumper traffic. I was already dead tired after a very frustrating day, and by the time I inched my car forward on the freeway towards home I was outright exhausted. The one thing that made the drive bearable was that the sun was out, and the weather was brisk and not too cold. I was able to drive with my windows down and my sunroof open. To my left, the sun was slowly dropping in the sky, and I had a sudden urge to try and find a place to sit and watch the sunset. One of my favorite places for such an activity is the marina in Everett, but with the heavy traffic there was no way I was going to make it there in time.
I decided to try getting to the Port of Edmonds, which was a lot closer. I made it just in time to see the sun disappearing behind the mountains, as a ferry boat sailed past on its way to Kingston. I found a bench to sit on and just watched the rapidly-changing sky, breathing in the wonderful smell of salt sea air.

Edmonds Sunset 1

Sailboats at Sunset


As I sat on the bench, the temperature rapidly dropping and the sky darkening, I felt overcome with a calm, peaceful feeling. Sunsets on Puget Sound, or near any water really, do that to me. I felt all the tension of the day draining out of me, replaced by a quiet happiness. I thought about how lucky I am to live in this beautiful place with its brilliant sunsets.
I want to live somewhere with a view of the sunset over the water. I don’t care if it’s a house, or a condo, or even a decrepit apartment….I just want that view. I want to live somewhere that allows me to look out my window, or step outside, and see the sunset and smell the fresh seawater. I’ve known since a 2005 visit to the Oregon Coast, watching the sun set at Cannon Beach, that it was my dream to live somewhere with a view of the water. Tuesday night’s sunset in Edmonds reminded me of how much I want that for myself someday.

Edmonds Sunset 2

After awhile I got cold, and reluctantly left my bench to make my way to Starbucks for some hot chocolate to warm up with. But I looked back at the pictures that I snapped of the sunset over the next few days whenever I started to feel stressed, and remembered the beauty of this place I get to live in.

Places I Love: Dragonfish Asian Cafe

Recently (earlier today, actually!) a friend of mine who lives out of state encouraged me to start writing about places in and around Seattle that I like. He and his wife are planning a trip here later this year, and they wanted better recommendations of what to see and visit than generic guides had to offer. I thought his suggestion was a really great idea, not just to give good feedback about places I like but also to share them with my friends. So upon request, I introduce Places I Love, a new series of posts in which I will share some of my local favorites and hopefully convince others to try them out!
One of my favorite places to eat in Seattle is Dragonfish Asian Cafe. It’s a Pan Asian restaurant with a fun, relaxed atmosphere and some of the best Asian food I’ve ever had. I discovered it in 2008, the first time I came to Seattle on vacation. The restaurant serves dinner until 1am, perfect for a late dinner after taking in a show. What I’ve always done when I go there is order several different dishes to share around the table with the people I’m out with. That way, we all get a taste of lots of different dishes, and I’ve never had anything that I didn’t love. I always like to start with an order of edamame, and my favorite dish on the menu is the Dragonfire Chicken.
In addition to a great food menu, Dragonfish also does an awesome happy hour and they have a very fun and diverse drink menu. My two favorite cocktails are the Lychee Drop, which is simple but fantastic and made with lychee infused vodka and lemon, and the Confucius, a yummy tropical drink served up with a flaming sugar cube floating in it.
Even though I definitely get my fill of food at Dragonfish, I never leave there feeling uncomfortably full – the food is satisfying but not heavy. In fact, I’m always up for a dessert sampler after dinner. Really, who wouldn’t want a few bites of the restaurant’s decadent Lemongrass Creme Brulee or some Mango Upside Down Cake?
Not only is Dragonfish a great place to go for a delicious dinner, but the prices are reasonable so there’s no breaking the bank just for a night out, and the staff has always been incredibly friendly and attentive. I’ve never had a bad experience there, and I always look forward to going.
 
 

An Updates Kind of Post

It’s really kind of overwhelming to me that we’ve already reached the last week in February. My life has been so busy since the start of the year that I’ve barely had time to squeeze everything in, let alone stop and take a breath. Things have changed a LOT for me in the past few months, so this seems like a good time for one of those general life-update type posts.
Professionally, I’ve had a lot going on after two of my coworkers and friends decided to leave the company in January. I’m happy for them for pursuing new things, but I miss them both terribly. We try to get together and catch up, but it’s really not the same as seeing someone five days a week. For awhile I was scrambling to keep up with their workloads as well as my own, and I’m proud to say that I never once lost my mind or went running through the building whilst shrieking. On the bright side, we have two amazing new team members that were hired a few weeks ago, and I’ve been busy helping out with their training.
Before I knew that things were about to get crazy at work, I signed up for two classes this semester instead of my usual one. I know that two classes doesn’t sound like a lot, but when you work full-time, it really is! I’m studying math and sociology, and am actually really enjoying both courses. Things are up in the air as far as how much my company will be contributing for tuition assistance in the coming months, so I’m not sure what will happen for me education-wise after this semester. I really can’t afford classes without the assistance, and I’m very hesitant to take out student loans. For now I’m just hoping that the tuition program will remain relatively unchanged and I’ll be able to finish my degree.
My personal life has had some major changes too. Last November, after a lot of very difficult soul-searching, I decided to end my nine-year relationship and move out on my own. I got an apartment in December and am slowly making it feel like home. Since deciding to make this life change, I’ve definitely learned a lot about the different people in my life and the role they play. Sadly, a few people I considered to be my closest friends were anything but, and I learned some valuable lessons with that experience. But I was also amazed at the extent to which most of my friends were there for me, and I wouldn’t have made it through this experience without them. I also made some great new friends along the way that I’m very grateful to have!
Although things were pretty crazy and overwhelming for awhile, I’m happy to say that my life is returning to a quiet routine. For the most part, things are going well and I am content.
 

V-Day

Today is Valentine’s Day, but that’s not what this post is about. V-Day is a movement fighting to end violence against women and girls all over the world. One of the things that I like to do on February 14th, when we are celebrating love, is to donate to this great cause and do my part to end the terrible crimes that are committed against women.
I’m all too familiar with a staggering statistic: that one in three women will be a victim of some form of violence in her lifetime. In other words, over one billion women currently on this planet will be assaulted in her lifetime. With those statistics in mind, activist Eve Ensler (best known for creation of the play The Vagina Monologues) established V-Day on Valentine’s Day in 1998. The purpose is simple: to unite and fight back against the epidemic in the world of violence against women.
I myself have been a victim of domestic violence, and sadly I know too many other women who have shared a similar experience. I also know women who have been raped and assaulted. It truly is everywhere, it happens far too often, and it needs to stop.
Today is the 16th anniversary of the launch of V-Day, and to celebrate I am writing this post and sharing it with people I love in hopes of helping to shatter the silence and erase the taboo that goes along with being a victim of battery, rape, incest, female genital mutilation, and sex slavery. These things are happening, and they will only end when we as a global society are aware of them and refuse to stay silent about how unacceptable they are. We must demand change.
Please celebrate V-Day with me by visiting vday.org and getting involved. You can donate, find an event to participate in, or even organize your own event. Let’s stand together and celebrate a different kind of V-Day this February 14th.

Blue Monday

It’s the first Monday of the new year, and I started it out feeling pretty good. I actually got out of bed when my alarm went off (this is not something that happens all that often….normally I hit Snooze at least twice and then laze about snuggling my kitties when I really ought to be getting up and ready for work), my hair cooperated in the getting-ready process a lot more than it usually does, and I was out the door with enough time to stop at Starbucks for a latte. All was reasonably well with the world as I arrived at work, set my coffee and bag on my desk, and started getting situated after being away all weekend. I was arranging things when, BAM!, my elbow hit my coffee cup and dumped my latte all over my desktop calendar, several papers, and my blanket. I was pretty irritated with myself as I mopped up the mess and sent a message requesting a replacement calendar.
Turns out, I shouldn’t blame myself, it’s the universe’s fault. What I have learned since this morning is that today is Blue Monday, which is a splashy way of saying it’s the most depressing day of the year. Has anyone else heard of this? Because it was completely not on my radar. Apparently Blue Monday is the day that the most divorces of the year get filed, and tweets are five times more likely to be negative. I guess on some level it makes sense: the holidays are over, people are going back to work, the credit card bills are starting to come in after a December of increased spending, families are sick of each other after all that “together” time.
I did some research and found that Blue Monday actually falls somewhere in the middle of January, not the first full week of the month. The date gets calculated by taking into account a bunch of different factors, like time lapsed since Christmas and average weather conditions. This isn’t really enough to convince me that Blue Monday truly exists. After all, in spite of the fact that I spilled my coffee today, my hair looks great and the sun is shining! It’s a beautiful day! Admittedly, spilling a four dollar drink didn’t please me, but it’s certainly not the worst thing that could happen.
I reject this Blue Monday theory. I’m not going to have a bad day just because someone decided that the weather and my potential credit card bills have dictated that I could. To me, this is a lot like Friday the 13th, which has been deemed a bad luck day but usually turns out fine for me (I mean, honestly, what’s to hate about Fridays?). I went back to Starbucks on my lunch and got myself a new latte, which I drank without incident.
It would be easy to go into a day that already has a label for being depressing and have a bad attitude, because why be positive when the day is going to suck anyways? But it’s just as easy to have a good outlook and decide that, Blue Monday or no, today is kicking off a great week!
 

2013 in Review

It’s almost the end of the year, and since I haven’t blogged in awhile I thought it might be nice to get back into writing by looking back over my Resolutions for 2013. I had some good times and bad times in 2013, and overall I’m ready to welcome a new year and put this last one behind me.
So, how’d I do in 2013? Let’s take a look…..
1. Win the lottery. Nope, still no prize money. I have high hopes for 2014, though. As some know, 7 is my favorite number, so it would be appropriate for me to hit the jackpot in 7/14.
2. Continue to exercise and eat healthy and maintain the weight loss I’ve achieved.  I did a pretty good job of this overall in 2013. I’ve backslid recently, as people are apt to do during the holidays, but I’m ready to rally and get back to my diet and exercise habits.
3. Become a certified Zumba instructorI achieved this goal in January and it was a great experience. I taught a class alongside my friend Kate for awhile. It never really took off, but I may look into other teaching opportunities in the future. For the most part I’ve decided I prefer taking classes to teaching them, but I did have a really good time teaching!
4. Stress less, smile moreThis is a work in progress of sorts. I can definitely think of examples of times that I have let stress upset me more than it should have, especially in situations I had no control over. I still have moments where I feel anxious or even panicked, but I’m getting better at stopping myself and reminding myself that I need to roll with the punches. Life isn’t perfect, and things aren’t always going to go the way I want them to. All I can really do is choose to be happy no matter what’s thrown my way.
5. Get organizedIn some ways, I’ve done a really good job of this….and in others, I really fell short. I made this resolution specifically for the way I handle my personal property (at work I am ridiculously organized, which proves to me that I do have the potential to meet this goal). There is still far too much stuff crammed into my closets and dresser drawers. I’ve been looking at everything lately and realizing all over again that I simply have too much stuff, and that I need to go through and get rid of a lot of it. I really do want to streamline my life, and adopt more of a ‘quality’ than a ‘quantity’ aspect to my possessions. Hopefully I’ll do better with this one in the year to come.
 
And now, some reflection….The year overall left me with mixed feelings. I had some really great things happen, like enrolling in Washington State University and working toward my Bachelor’s degree, and spending a weekend in Vegas with my parents and my cousins to celebrate my cousin Melanie’s fortieth birthday. I dealt with some really tough stuff too, especially finding out that my cat Angel is in the early stages of kidney disease. I made some new friends, and other friendships were strengthened. I also lost relationships with people that I had honestly believed would be in my life forever.
What I can say about this past year is that I’ve used it to really come into my own. I have regained a self-confidence that I didn’t think I would ever get back, that I haven’t truly had since I was 18 years old. Because of that, I was able to make some hard decisions about parts of my life that just weren’t going the way that I wanted them to. My mother is forever reminding me that I can’t save the world, and telling me that I need to prioritize myself and stop setting aside everything I want for the sake of others. Hard as it is, I’m trying to listen. I’m trying to put my own needs at the forefront of my mind for a change. It isn’t an easy mindset to change, and there are definitely times when I feel incredibly selfish. It isn’t in my nature at all, and I’ve had to fight very hard with myself at times to stop myself from falling into old habits and letting someone else’s happiness take priority over my own.
I did a little writing in 2013, and here are some posts from this year that I am particularly proud of (if you particularly liked a different post, let me know!):
Embracing Equality – I lay out my ideas about same-sex marriage legalization
Things I’m Awesome At – I revealed some of my most fantastic skills.
An Open Letter to GMA – I got mad at Good Morning America after they butchered a so-called interview with Jenna Mourey, one of my favorite YouTubers.
The Inner Monologue – Realizing that I’m my own harshest critic, and that I need to be kinder.
Looking Back: Ten Years in Telecom – A recap of the last decade of my professional life.
The Fabulous Life of Lauren Lien – I was lucky enough to be granted an interview with one of the most inspirational people I’ve ever known.
Mistress Shaming –  I reacted to a website that exists solely to shame the “other women”.
Now for the New Year’s Resolutions. I only really have one resolution for 2014, and that is to embrace it and do my best to enjoy it. I want to travel, have fun with friends, try new places and new food and have new experiences.
Happy New Year, my friends. I hope you all have a wonderful 2014!
 
 

Mistress Shaming

We already know that every move we make can be captured and made public online. Nowadays, people are always posting pictures, tagging who they’re with, sharing every detail. Cell phones can track our locations. It’s lamented that there really isn’t any privacy anymore. And if we do something we shouldn’t, odds are, we’re going to get caught. After all, there’s an entire Wikipedia entry dedicated to Anthony Weiner’s dick pics. Howard Stern held a “beauty pageant” on his show for Tiger Woods’ mistresses. The inevitability of getting caught is definitely incentive not to stray, cheat, or do anything we really shouldn’t be doing.
As if the risk of being caught in a photo out at a bar when you told your significant other that you were working late isn’t enough to keep you honest, now there’s the chance of ending up on a website called ShesAHomewrecker.com. Apparently this website has been around for awhile, but it just came on my radar when I saw a story about it on the news this morning. Basically, the idea is that scorned women can go onto the site to upload stories and photos of “the other woman” to alert the Internetverse about that other woman’s misdeeds. The listings can be as detailed as the creator wants them to be, and might even list personal details like home address and telephone number.
The website was launched by a woman who calls herself Ariella Alexander. Alexander has stated that she feels she’s not in the wrong for starting the website, because “if women loved each other so much, women wouldn’t be sleeping with other people’s husbands. At the end of the day it’s about RESPECT” (quote from abc.com).
When I was a kid, my mom would remind me that “two wrongs don’t make a right” (usually after I’d hit one of my siblings, only to protest that they’d hit me first, as I was being sent to my room). What she meant was that hurting someone who hurt you first isn’t okay, because it doesn’t stop you from feeling the pain that they inflicted and does nothing to improve the situation. And while I admit that there have been times when someone did something to me that really hurt me or made me mad, and I fantasized about running them over with my car, I never actually did it. And listing a girl on ShesAHomewrecker can be every bit as harmful as hitting her with your car: women who have been called out on the site have received cruel messages and even death threats from strangers who now know the intimate details of what the so-called she-whores have done. Because the women uploading the content are the ones who feel victimized, they aren’t likely to include important details about whether or not the mistress knew there was a wife in the picture, or what the actual circumstances are. That “slut” being bashed and harassed online may not have even known that the man she’s been seeing isn’t single.
My initial reaction when I saw the story was “Hmmm, the type of person who could dream up a website like this is clearly kinda nuts. I wonder if that’s why she was cheated on?” To be fair, I’ve never experienced a cheating husband or boyfriend, so who knows how crazy I might get if it happened to me. But I’d like to think that I’d stop short of rallying the lynch mob online. I’m not saying that anyone deserves to be cheated on, because a commitment’s a commitment, no matter how nuts you might be. But I do think that if you’re the sort of person who believes it’s okay to ‘out’ your man’s mistress by listing her name and contact information online, then it’s possible you might be the sort of person who drives men away from you. Just maybe.
Another issue I have with this site is that it places the blame for the infidelity squarely on the shoulders of the mistress, who may or may not have even known she was wronging anyone. Let’s consider who DID know he was wronging someone: the guy that was in the relationship, and knew full well what he was doing. Unless a couple has a different, well-communicated arrangement, going off and snogging (does anyone say that?) some other random person is a pretty clear no-no. So why is there no MyHusbandBonedHisSecretary website to upload pictures and shame the guys?
For that matter, why is this website geared only for women whose men have cheated? Sorry to rat out my gender, but girls cheat too. According to Static Brain, 54% of women and 57% of men surveyed have admitted to committing infidelity. Those numbers are incredibly close. Clearly, men are not the only ones who are guilty of cheating.
Relationships are so terribly complicated. And although I think cheating is incredibly wrong, I can admit that I see how it can happen. I have multiple friends that have been both the victim and the perpetrator of cheating, and each instance was unique and stemmed from different problems. Sometimes, people simply find the right person at a very wrong time. Sometimes one person feels neglected and seeks solace in the first person that offers up attention. And sometimes, as much as it sucks, someone just makes a stupid decision that has some really horrible consequences.
If you’ve been cheated on, hey, I get it. You’re hurt, you’re pissed, and you’ve been betrayed. But the way I see it, you’re either going to try and pick up the pieces and fix what was broken, or you’re going to admit that the relationship is too badly shattered to put it back together and try to move on. But either way, publicly shaming your ex’s mistress online seems to me like a really terrible idea. Whether or not it hurts her, it will most definitely hurt you – and haven’t you been hurt enough already?
 
 

The Fabulous Life of Lauren Lien

When it comes to getting what she wants out of life, Lauren Lien isn’t afraid to risk it all. This self-professed brazen brunette has fearlessly pursued her dreams, following her heart not just around the country but around the world. Despite encounters with her share of setbacks, Lauren has pushed forward and built up what she calls The Fab Life, a mantra for her persistence in living a life in which she refuses to settle for anything less than all she’s ever wanted.
I met Lauren in a high school Spanish class, and reconnected with her via social media when we were both in our twenties. When she began writing her blog, The Fabulous Life of Lauren Lien, in 2011, I was curious and subscribed to it so that I could read her posts and see what she had to say. What I had expected was that I would appreciate the enthusiasm for life and positive energy that is the essence of Lauren, and I was not disappointed. What I hadn’t expected was to be so wholeheartedly inspired by this person who was willing to put her whole heart and soul into pursuing her passions, but that’s exactly what I found.
 

Lauren 1

Fearless and Fabulous


I reached out to Lauren, asking her if she would mind doing an interview with me for my blog, and she very sweetly said yes. So, in the midst of getting engaged and moving to a new home in a new country, Lauren very kindly answered my questions and made this post possible. Check out the interview below, as well as Lauren’s blog. I hope you will be as inspired by her as I am!
 
You have both a blog and a mantra, “The Fabulous Life of Lauren Lien”. What inspired the inception of the Fab Life?
In college, my girlfriends and I used to sit around and watch VH1’s “The Fabulous Life” ; it became a silly habit to mock me and “The Fabulous Life of Lauren Lien”. For what reason, I have no idea cause back then I had nothing except dorm bedding, a mini fridge and dreams…haha
The real Fab Life mantra is inspired by my personal belief that something magical will always happen to those who wait and those who work for it. It’s in that moment that you are assured of “The Fabulous Life”.
Could you give me an idea of where you are now in life, what you’re up to and how things are going?
On June 3rd of this year, I became engaged to my first love, Johny, where he proposed at the Dead Sea in Jordan. That day forever changed my life and direction I said “yes” on holy, historic waters to the love of my life through the most fairytale proposal imagined. That memory altered my outlook and my focus. I just was overwhelmed knowing there is so much in the world I have not seen and I don’t know…I wanted that to change.
In August I moved to the United Arab Emirates (unofficially, until you have a resident visa) and started my long search for a career here, since my fiancé works in the UAE. Never in a million years could you have told me I would be living in the Middle East. To visit here only sounded like a dream. However, that’s the magic of life and how you really need to be open to possibilities of the unimaginable and allow it to lead you to your destiny. Needless to say, I am going through all kinds of changes, which I can write a whole story in itself!!!
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A newly engaged, blissfully happy Lauren and Johny.


Did you always have such a positive outlook on your life, or were there events that led up to a change in perspective?
I am an eternal optimist. Always have and always be. Not sure why…my mother believes it has something to do with how badly she wanted to get pregnant and being the first born, how much love and affection was showered my way….not sure if its nature vs. nurture here. My faith is what keeps me strong and certain that everything will always work out, in time.
 
How have things changed for you since you adopted the Fab Life philosophy?
I had no idea that my blog would develop fans and actual readers…that has truly affected my leadership and being immaculate with my words.  I think my journey has gotten more interesting. Something’s better, something’s worse – but I always focus and share without malicious intent and maintain privacy while getting the point across.  Sometimes we get lost in the details and forget the message. That is what I try to avoid.
What advice would you give to people who want to embark on their own Fabulous Life Journey?
Rule #1, never give up. The hardest lesson in life to learn is when to go a different direction or when to keep pushing through when you experience road blocks. You must learn through experience and following your own gut. Rule #2, is to always stand up for yourself. Countless times people have let me down and didn’t have my back. That’s when you have to know your worth and stand up for yourself.  We call this self love.  Rule #3, be patient. Anything worth having in this world is worth fighting for AND waiting for. That’s a promise.
In life, we all have bad days, setbacks, and sometimes even tragedy. How are you able to keep a positive outlook when going through not-so-fun times?
I go through these times, in my opinion more than most cause of all the risks I take. However, I maintain optimism by constantly reading, listening and meeting other trailblazers, listening to their journey. I find that it literally refuels my inspiration tank. Most importantly staying close to my faith and grounded by my family and close friends always sets me back on track. A support system is critical.
 
Your blog, The Fabulous Life of Lauren Lien, has had almost 7,000 hits since its inception in 2011. What inspired you to start the blog, and what has been your favorite part of writing it?
I started the blog as a writing exercise. It is my dream to one day author published work (screenplays, books, maybe even have my own column) so it was no intention to achieve a status in the blogging world. Now that it has some clout, I do look to see what opportunities are there and how I can evolve my idea into something more…
 
What’s next in the Fab Life for you?
After I get settled in the United Arab Emirates, I plan to travel and explore the world as much as possible since this area is an interesting jumping off point. I would love to transform “The Fabulous Life of Lauren Lien” into an online magazine or shared multimedia blog with my better half, Johny. Where we educate others through our travels and provide other inspiring elements…still in the brainstorming phase, but we will see where life takes us!